BDSM/Kink
I enjoy being choked during sex but my partner hurts me. What shall I do?
Choking can be dangerous if not done properly so it is important that you and your partner discuss this beforehand. Restricting air flow for a long time can cause brain damage. Which is why you must communicate to your partner how you are experiencing it and your partner should start by attempting to press gently on both sides of your throat to determine which grip is best and suitable for you as well as whether you're still able to speak, avoiding a coughing fit, and feeling safe and comfortable.
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